The best advice I received during pregnancy was Red encouraging me to trust my intuition.
I was starting to feel really uncomfortable with my decision to stay with my doctor, but inertia and feeling like I didn’t want to offend him by switching so late in the game kept me where I was until she challenged me to trust my gut. And reminded me that my doctor would barely remember my birth whereas I would have that experience with me the rest of my life.
That inspired me to make the best decision for me.